Your Safe Space to Just Vent

I was talking to an old lover months back. I never stopped loving him, but he hurt me so bad that I have a hard time getting over it. He confided in me that he suffers from depression. I siggested a few things, offered "shorts" that I thought were funny and hoped he still had a sense of humor. Comedians... He pretty much got pissed at me and told me that everything I had done was everything I shouldn't do for a person who is suffering from depression. A) It's been a long time. Im not in the immediate vacinity to gague him, and frankly, he just set me off too. Because of him, I flippen mourned his absencents for 16 years and he nearly caused our baby to become depressed. It took me all day long to cheer our son who had waited for him with his hopes up that he would come see him. He acts like hes the greatest thing since carmel popcorn. B) I did what I could and if it's not good enough maybe he should go jump in the lake and get over it. From where I sit, he has a great life. He can't be as depressed as he claims and just wants me to feel bad for him, maybe he can get me to do some thing for him like a komquat, because when I knew him he was a flippen womanizer. I might have still had feeling for him, resin, residual... but he broke my heart into a million pieces that I would hate myself if I ever forgave him and let him back into my life as if what happened 30 years ago had vanished with the sunrise. I chose to think happy beautiful things about you because they were. I have since let the hurt go, I can't forgive.

I finally did it…I finally set a boundary after 3 years of putting up with her bullshit I finally told her I’m done…and I pray that I never forgive her ever again in this life time 😮‍💨

"talk to someone about your problems!" and the only people i can talk to are people who've had it a lot worse than i have. i'm already such a burden just by trying to be around them. why would i want to make them have to "worry" about me on top of everything else they have going on? and i hate hearing the same dumb shit like "it'll all be okay" or whatever soulless comfort there is to offer me. i want to die i want to mutilate myself it just gets worse and worse every year no matter how much i try not to let it bother me. i want actual help. i just wish i could let people know i'm suffering but asking for help is too hard and too embarrassing for me. i don't know what to do anymore. my life isn't even bad. nothing bad or traumatizing has happened to me so i don't know why i ended up this way. why couldn't i have turned out normal?

Yesterday my boss was getting lashes during the meeting because of things that are not going right at the department. One employee (who no one likes) became a manager out of nowhere AND he even got a team below him that belonged to another manager so it’s a lot of drama.

Estoy poopin

I need to stop being mean about things people do that bother me. They're not doing it on purpose

I had a particular crush on a guy. I saw a version of him that I just immediately liked. I wish I got to know him.

Napoleon XIV - They're Coming to Take Me Away, Ha-Haaa! — peaking at No. 3 on the Billboard Hot 100 popular music singles chart on August 13, 1966 Sounds like a man losing his mind after a breakup, but ends with a surprise twist

Taking over the shift, prior team member said he would see me tomorrow. I responed like a child all wide eye and moronic- "extra" as they say. "No, oh no" he caught the meaning and corrected himself, but c'est la vie. I do it jokingly but the delivery is so way off. lol

I didn't ring 000 as they no longer take dangerous and illegal driving over the phone as it happens even those the website says they do and they ignored reports sent through the website anyway. Around 1.20pm 18th September 2026 I was a passenger in a car that stopped for pedestrians at the crossing at Yeerongpilly Station Wilkie St heading towards Green St, when the pedestrians was half way across a driver of a grey Toyota hatch (Qld number plate 570AU2) was not only speeding but went into the other lane and failed to give way to pedestrians nearly running them over and then driver then speed up Wilkie St, which happens all the time and still no police.

Dresscodes for some of these jobs are ridiculous. What the fuck do you mean some of these places don't allow women to wear pants?! I'm not wearing makeup for 8 hours a day for fucking $12/hr., especially in a place that clearly doesn't like turning on the fucking A/C. If these places basically want me to play supermodel, then they better pay me like one.

Paramount + - Golden Axe - fun series based on an old Sega game

What is it with fashion and makeup trends (at least on TikTok) either being the most boring, basic things or some of the sluttiest versions of anything? Clean girl aesthetic or stuff that's too much even for night clubs. There's not much room for something either in-between or neither and it sucks. I'm trying to explore different types of fashion here and these algorithms are fucking garbage and a hindrance.

I was driving and I wanted a brick wall 3 feet deep to materialize in front of me. i absolutely wouldve ran right into it. Time to put my plans into action. I gave it a shot. It did t work out But i will not leave this world or go to prison without getting back at those fucks!. TIMES UP for a few dummies who thought they got away with it.

I feel like a piece of meat whose only purpose is to be sexually abused. Even the people who abused me before wouldn’t want me now that I’m a fat used adult anyway. I feel gross and soiled and I never want anyone to look at me sexually again.

I just had the worst self harm relapse session of my life and I wish I can reverse and didn't do it.

Ok I need advice, so I have this friend and they always ghost me, and use me to solve their problems and treats me like I’m their therapist. They then throw me away when I’m no longer needed. They have broken my trust too many times, and me being me has accepted their apologies. They promised to change. They ghosted me for a week after I was invited to plans and I wanted verification I was still invited. Well me and my friend group always plan a Holiday party each year and we scheduled it in advance. Well my mom told me I should not invite her and the others who treat me badly, but I feel bad not to. Would it be mean if I only invite my other group of friends, and break our three year tradition? I want honest advice because I’m very conflicted about this.

this site gives me the giggles sometimes sorry i just get in a giggly mood it's not because it's funny i'm sorry y'all i might go to hell for this

another question: am i just incredibly picky with my attraction? because to me having a guy who i think is objectively attractive to most people but who i don’t feel absolutely feral about standing in my kitchen or asking me when he’s going to see me is my idea of purgatory. but it seems a lot of straight women just do with whoever is around and they’re fine with it??? one girl i was talking to said if they just had tattoos she’s down to date them. like really? nothing about their face or physique or anything??? just tats? another one saw a guy with a full on bowl cut and was like yup i’m into him. i really could not. he needs to be a smoke show by all of my standards sorry. he’s gotta look like a cologne advert model and there needs to be insane chemistry. otherwise i won’t be motivated enough.

i work at an understaffed vet clinic, where it's just me, the vet, and her daughter. no techs, just two assistants and a vet. i got the job in high school, and there were at least four other workers when i joined. over the years, people have quit or found other jobs, and my boss has never hired anyone else. she can't fit it in the budget, nor can she even pay herself half the time. i thought about jumping ship, and everyone's been begging me to. but i don't have a car. i ride a bike to work, and this is my best option right now. i have a love-hate relationship with my job. it comes in phases, and right now i'm in the hate phase. every morning i open the clinic, i am there alone until my boss comes in to do nothing helpful at all. she eats breakfast, and then points out all of the things that i haven't done yet, like vacuum or clean kennels. mind you, when i open, i find piles of food bowls, shitty kennel grates, laundry that reeks of piss,, and rusty surgical instruments everywhere. do i have time to clean those? no, because i also have to walk the dogs, answer phone calls, and check in surgery drop offs. i just pray i can find time that day to clean it up.