Sounds like that guy needs a solid kick in the face. Being a man is being a father, if that guy doesnt get it, the world is better off without him. Sorry to hear about your situation. Good luck with it

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I cant believe some parents abandon families. Fleeing to another country is ridiculous. Sounds like he doesnt care about anybody. Who would throw away a whole life to avoid paying money. I assume you left him. I can see why. Personally i think children are gods gift to all of us. If he doesnt care that hes hurting his own family then its time to teach the man a lesson. Best way to get back at him is making him pay his dues. Bet hes rich too. Most rich people are like that. Like the bible says, "for the love of money is the root of all evil." From above, the wicked shall receive their just reward. Sounds like its time he payed for his sins.

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i felt like i had to say somethin...whoever said your an idiot can go jump off a cliff and break every bone in their body on the way down and stay paralyzed for the rest of their life.

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yea, I agree with #3, that's just fucked up.

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I don't understand how he can just leave his kids with nothing. Kids are a parent's responsibility, in a way, FOREVER! We care about our kids thoughts, feelings, loves, hates, and futures forever. How can he not be in pain for his children? He's a classic dead beat dad and I pray that he slips up and gets arrested. Maybe he'll change his tune when he's someone's 'bitch' in jail!

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thanks all....yea he does have $$$ and the kids do feel abandoned only feel as they were his tax deduction. i can only tell them i'm sorry i should have chosen better. yes he does value money much more than his family. they are great kids 2 nearly finished with college, one going in in the fall. how can any parent not be proud of that? and the kids and i did it together. i am proud!

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I am so with you, #3! Who the f*** calls someone an idiot for that? Seriously? Maybe it was him? Nah, I'm sure he wouldn't give a shit to even vote on the muttr. Asshole.
Anyway, I'm glad your kids are doing well, and hope they continue on their successful path. You should definitely be proud!

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Does being a man, mean being robbed clean ? women need to wake up !!!!!!

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