i must vent about exhusbands moving to mexico not pay child support, leaving mothers to keep kids on the right track, go to college try to maintain stability with the family; then say how wonderful their life is in mexico. telling the court system stick it = call his kids occasionally, bribe a son to go into the service so he can wash his hands of any type of payment involving child support. all he can be is arrested when and if he gets back into the US. where are all the good men who respected and believed in 'family' ok i muttered. any single mom's out there with the same issues?
Sounds like that guy needs a solid kick in the face. Being a man is being a father, if that guy doesnt get it, the world is better off without him. Sorry to hear about your situation. Good luck with it
I cant believe some parents abandon families. Fleeing to another country is ridiculous. Sounds like he doesnt care about anybody. Who would throw away a whole life to avoid paying money. I assume you left him. I can see why. Personally i think children are gods gift to all of us. If he doesnt care that hes hurting his own family then its time to teach the man a lesson. Best way to get back at him is making him pay his dues. Bet hes rich too. Most rich people are like that. Like the bible says, "for the love of money is the root of all evil." From above, the wicked shall receive their just reward. Sounds like its time he payed for his sins.
i felt like i had to say somethin...whoever said your an idiot can go jump off a cliff and break every bone in their body on the way down and stay paralyzed for the rest of their life.
I don't understand how he can just leave his kids with nothing. Kids are a parent's responsibility, in a way, FOREVER! We care about our kids thoughts, feelings, loves, hates, and futures forever. How can he not be in pain for his children? He's a classic dead beat dad and I pray that he slips up and gets arrested. Maybe he'll change his tune when he's someone's 'bitch' in jail!
thanks all....yea he does have $$$ and the kids do feel abandoned only feel as they were his tax deduction. i can only tell them i'm sorry i should have chosen better. yes he does value money much more than his family. they are great kids 2 nearly finished with college, one going in in the fall. how can any parent not be proud of that? and the kids and i did it together. i am proud!
I am so with you, #3! Who the f*** calls someone an idiot for that? Seriously? Maybe it was him? Nah, I'm sure he wouldn't give a shit to even vote on the muttr. Asshole. Anyway, I'm glad your kids are doing well, and hope they continue on their successful path. You should definitely be proud!
well, well, the custodya and child support laws are unfair. Most custodials especially mothers want to screw the ex, all they see are $$$$$. Why pay 4000 $ for kids ones sees on the the stop clock 2 evening a week and 2 weekends a month ? Then to be harrassed and insulted by the ex over being 5-20 mins late. Get the laws right then Dads will care, trust me most of us love our kids, dearly.
If he's got the money to flee to Mexico why doesn't he have money for a child support payment or two? I'm sorry but those payments are a joke anyways. My mom used to get $60 total a week for us 2 kids. That was in part because he was self employed which makes it much easier to hide how much you are getting paid... but still... $60 a week for 2 kids? yeah right. you should cash in on your ex's life insurance if he has any... if you know what I mean.
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