Posted by: mrawesome87  on 02/28/10 @ 01:19:39pm

Well, where do I start...

I'm a senior in college. My mother just died before this semester and she was the one paying all the bills and supporting my family while I was in school (my dad's a dead-beat). So now I live on campus with no home to turn to when I graduate or during breaks....

My friend let me drive his car while I was waiting to get my own. his parents pay his insurance and bought the car for him. He has full coverage, but he doesn't want them to find out so now he wants me to pay the full damages for it even though I was driving it in rainy conditions and it was an accident. he was in the car with me and didn't warn me, he knew it was bad out.

So now I may end up losing all the money I have which was going to go towards a car for myself so I could work more hours at my two pt jobs (yes I'm a full time college senior with two jobs) and make more money to get my own apartment and support myself.

I now won't be able to do that depending on if he uses the insurance in the end or wants me to pay full damages.

I work hard, I'm honest and I always try and do the right thing by everybody but it's hard!

That and I really like this one girl, but I've been so stressed and upset lately that I'm worried it will drive her away...

I'm a fighter though, I would never hurt myself or give up in any way, I know this, but it just sucks. Which is why I'm here to vent...thanks for reading....

Category: Miscellaneous     4 Responses
Think of it in terms of Mass Effect 2, Paragon- pay for the damages, remain friends with this dude, wait to buy a car, Renegade- Tell him no, gain a car, lose a friend, and whatever else comes with it for fucking someone over like that.

And as tough as you have it right now, that's no excuse to do this to a friend. Take responsibility, it may make this even harder, but if you want to do whats right, pay him. Bottom line is, you wrecked his car, as a friend you should try and pay for it somehow.
#3    Anonymous     03/01/10 @ 12:06:49am    Comment
Clicked laugh by mistake. So sorry hun. There is sense in what these people are saying, but if your friend was a true friend, I think he'd give you some slack (Does he know about the two jobs?)Youshouldn't blame him though. Ask him for a little lee-way. I don't have any other advice to offer you, other than thatI'll hope for you for things to improve. Good luck, stay positive, your view on life is brave. x
#4    Anonymous     03/05/10 @ 04:35:11pm    Comment

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