Posted by: Anonymous on 10/15/09 @ 05:37:12pm
Why is it so rare to find a guy who just wants to snuggle and not attack you like an animal.?
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haha thanks for the advice, but i'm not even talking about going out I'm sayin a lazy day in the dorm in sweatpants and a sweatshirt and every guy i talk to is still tryin to get in my pants i could be like deathly ill (exaggeration) and still have a guy tryin to hook up with me.. thats why i muttr'd that
#3 Anonymous 10/15/09 @ 06:38:03pm Comment
haha thanks for the advice, but i'm not even talking about going out I'm sayin a lazy day in the dorm in sweatpants and a sweatshirt and every guy i talk to is still tryin to get in my pants i could be like deathly ill (exaggeration) and still have a guy tryin to hook up with me.. thats why i muttr'd that
#4 Anonymous 10/15/09 @ 06:39:53pm Comment
Ah... Well I guess it's good to feel like shit and still look good... :o)
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#5 Anonymous 10/15/09 @ 07:14:24pm Comment
I have to say that #2 is right on the money. May I ask if you always wears sweats or have you been known to show the cleavage in class from time to time? If so, yup, that's what they'll remember.
#6 Anonymous 10/15/09 @ 07:35:49pm Comment
Or, maybe you're just that hot... who knows? If only this site allowed photos!
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@ #7, haha.. we are working on a few profile features, including uploading your very own avatar :P so sit tight!
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#9 PCFixerGuy 10/15/09 @ 09:31:29pm Comment
ok well @ #6 lets just say its not something thats easily hid, but i do tend to wear more sweatshirts and jeans more often than not, granted i do look nice most of the time but i dont try to get the attention
#10 Anonymous 10/15/09 @ 10:38:19pm Comment
I bet your sweatshirts don't cover your midsection all the way. You can probably see your lower back while you're sitting at your seat in class or something.
If you don't what a guy to think of you in bed as the first though, then the only thing that should be showing is ankles, hands, arms, neck, face, and hair.
If they can have a chance to imagine putting their hand on that part of your skin and think about the position they have to be in with you in order to do that, that's when you're going to lead them right where you don't want them to be.
If you don't what a guy to think of you in bed as the first though, then the only thing that should be showing is ankles, hands, arms, neck, face, and hair.
If they can have a chance to imagine putting their hand on that part of your skin and think about the position they have to be in with you in order to do that, that's when you're going to lead them right where you don't want them to be.
#11 Anonymous 10/15/09 @ 11:37:49pm Comment
id have to say i dont see the point in a sweatshirt that doesn't cover you, and i usually were decently large hoodies for the comfort of it...
#12 Anonymous 10/15/09 @ 11:48:34pm Comment
Heh. I know what you mean. Some just have that "gift". You're probably just too nice.
#14 Anonymous 10/16/09 @ 04:17:02am Comment
You're going after or attracting the wrong guys. A friend of mine once asked the same question, while being dressed in a short skirt and low tank top.
#15 AlterEGo 10/16/09 @ 08:21:34am Comment
Ummmm none of you are helping the question that the girl asked. I get what she means. Some days I just wish I could call up a guy friend and snuggle up watch a movie.. I have a few of those buuuuut - 95% of guys would be like mmm spooning and then try and get sexual
I think what you see is what you get with 18-21 year old males. Girls - just expect them to be pigs.
#17 Anonymous 10/18/09 @ 10:58:40am Comment
#16 you hit it right on the head!! that's totally what I mean... I don't wanna have to worry about pushing a guy away because he doesnt understand by snuggling i mean like cuddling not ok we'll snuggle for ten minutes then here comes the sexual stuff...
#18 Anonymous 10/18/09 @ 01:24:34pm Comment
#16 you hit it right on the head!! that's totally what I mean... I don't wanna have to worry about pushing a guy away because he doesnt understand by snuggling i mean like cuddling not ok we'll snuggle for ten minutes then here comes the sexual stuff...
#19 Anonymous 10/18/09 @ 01:27:23pm Comment
that is veryyy good advice, i guess i might have to just stop thinking they all know what snuggling REALLY means and tell them what my version of snuggling is.
#21 Anonymous 10/18/09 @ 03:53:48pm Comment
because for the most part they are animals. did i say that?
#22 Anonymous 10/18/09 @ 06:31:04pm Comment
They think more about there penis urges rather then snuggling. If you said "Lets just go straight to sex" They wouldn't have any problem with that at all. If they had a choice the whole relationship would just be sex, sex, and more sex.
#23 Anonymous 10/19/09 @ 12:48:09am Comment
i like cuddling and im a guy...i like to do it when we wake up in the morning or late at night. I enjoy it cuz its relaxing especially in winter. Not so much summer. Summer im too friggin horny all the time, must be the heat. Damn hormones... I also have sex moods too. Usually between after the movie and before goin to bed. But if she asks me to cuddle i will so long as im not in a bad mood.
#24 Anonymous 10/21/09 @ 05:30:03am Comment
mm see theres the issue, I don't think I should have to put out in order to get a guy to cuddle with me... specially if its possible I'm gonna date one of these people. I don't want them to think I'm easy and I also don't wanna do something with them and once they got what they wanted they were done.. It would just be nice if i could say hey wanna come over snuggle and watch a movie and not have a guy interpret it as hey wanna come over have sex and watch a movie... i know not every guy is like that but it certainly seeeemss like it.
#26 Anonymous 10/21/09 @ 11:24:56am Comment
Why would you not want to have sex? And if you want to snuggle, why not with a female friend?
This topic could easily be turned around: Why do all girls always want everything BUT sex?
This topic could easily be turned around: Why do all girls always want everything BUT sex?
#27 Anonymous 10/22/09 @ 08:36:33am Comment
lol yea those girls hardly want sex but when they do, you better give it to em because if you dont your gonna miss out on something crazy/ fun...aaannnd your def gonna sleep on the couch and not earn cuddle time for a looong time.
#28 Anonymous 10/22/09 @ 05:11:46pm Comment
I think it's funny that right after I posted this muttr I found a guy who doesnt try to attack me when I wanna snuggle... hmmm interesting!
#30 Anonymous 10/27/09 @ 09:44:55am Comment
The point of this muttr is because I'm irritated that every guy I seem to hang out with tries to get with me rather then just be a snuggle buddy.. If I'm not givin you the wrong idea what makes you think I wanna get with you... If I say hey lets snuggle I don't mean hey lets fuck.
#33 Anonymous 10/30/09 @ 08:41:21am Comment
Fact of life: Spooning leads to forking.
#37 Anonymous 11/16/09 @ 02:49:40pm Comment
#35 and #37 are spot on.
#39 Anonymous 11/24/09 @ 10:49:51am Comment
clearly no one has faith in men these days hahaha
#40 Anonymous 12/17/09 @ 09:22:32am Comment
Keep looking. We're out there.
#41 alexqzed 12/31/09 @ 03:02:34pm Comment
So many comments. So many people who are very, very wrong.
I am a dude. I have a fully functioning penis, and I am fully heterosexual. Cuddling is fucking amazing, and while a good bedroom romp can be gratifying it would feel shallow without, you know, both parties actually giving a damn.
I am a dude. I have a fully functioning penis, and I am fully heterosexual. Cuddling is fucking amazing, and while a good bedroom romp can be gratifying it would feel shallow without, you know, both parties actually giving a damn.
#42 Anonymous 01/02/10 @ 04:00:47am Comment
I am the original poster... and i have dated the strangest variety of men.. I don't really have a type... which is why I posted this.. haha It is soo damn hard to find a guy who just wants to cuddle... granted I have found one and so far all we've done is snuggle.. but I guess I'll have to see how long that lasts...
#44 Anonymous 01/02/10 @ 09:52:14am Comment
they attack you like animals? i think your in the wrong part of the world or something, thats weird.
#45 Anonymous 01/09/10 @ 07:33:55pm Comment
don't take it so literal.
#46 Anonymous 01/12/10 @ 12:25:08pm Comment
heres a list of what women want: personality, nice body, smart, polite, outgoing, strong, funny, great with kids, nice hair, good hygiene, athletic...you know, perfect like in movies and womens magazines. Heres a list of what men want: hot body whose not crazy.
THE STANDARDS ARE TOO HIGH!!! CUT US SOME SLACK!!!
THE STANDARDS ARE TOO HIGH!!! CUT US SOME SLACK!!!
#47 Anonymous 01/19/10 @ 04:50:37pm Comment
that is so stereotype i never said thats what i wanted in a guy. i just want someone who I get along with that Im attracted to and someone who doesnt want just sex. yeah sex is great but I need to have an emotional thing as well and sometimes i wud rather just cuddle then have sex.
#48 Anonymous 01/19/10 @ 06:00:33pm Comment
what is cuddle?
#49 Anonymous 01/20/10 @ 08:29:37pm Comment
Probably because your hot or have big titties.
#50 Anonymous 02/10/10 @ 09:39:40am Comment
I guess you will never knowwwww
#51 Anonymous 02/10/10 @ 07:33:34pm Comment
?what is cuddle?
Conversation regression. Simpsons Fans will remember Ralph's "what's a battle?"
Conversation regression. Simpsons Fans will remember Ralph's "what's a battle?"
#52 Anonymous 02/12/10 @ 11:06:01pm Comment
someone give me an answer... why would men be wired differently than women? why do men tend to "roam" while women nurture? we're all animals. and like animals we must keep a population.
just giving an opinion.
just giving an opinion.
#53 Anonymous 03/04/10 @ 08:15:33pm Comment
it's probably because you're ugly and they'd rather flip you over than to give two shits about you
#54 Anonymous 03/10/10 @ 10:47:01am Comment
I know who the poster is who wrote this and I would have to say number 54 is so wrong
#55 Anonymous 04/12/10 @ 09:48:45am Comment
Shiit ill snuggle with you
Because their all like perverted children in a shop full of sexy sweets...
#57 Uolyzzab 10/29/10 @ 12:15:31am Comment
a relationship should not just be about sex, I wouldent mind just to snuggle and watch a move... but sex from time to time would be nice...
Not all men are just out after sex, but some are...
Not all men are just out after sex, but some are...
#58 Almo 11/22/10 @ 09:51:38am Comment
Snuggling is nice but being attacked is funner!
#59 Anonymous 12/21/10 @ 04:05:42pm Comment
its funny to read back on this now that ive had a boyfriend for almost a year now, sometimes the being attacked part is nice, cuz the snuggling always comes after ;) hahaha, but its nice not having to deal with the annoyance of the attempted attack of every guy i hang out with...
#60 Anonymous 12/22/10 @ 03:45:58am Comment
ok if all you want is a snuggle buddy get a gay friend otherwise you are just a tease.
#61 Anonymous 01/30/11 @ 09:28:08pm Comment
Well if a guy always expects a girl to have sex with them clearly they're just a slut cuz when a girl says snuggle we dont always mean sex so maybe guys should just stop being pigs and we wouldnt have this problem. a girl shouldnt always be expected to have sex with a guy when sometimes all we want is to just relax. We're not made just for sex so I wouldnt say we're just "teases" cuddling doesnt have to be sexual.
#62 Anonymous 02/21/11 @ 01:17:33pm Comment
Thats the way men were designed, Uolyzzab... If they were shy little bitches, the human race would not exist. 200,000 years of evolution in the making. ;)
#63 Anonymous 03/14/11 @ 06:44:07pm Comment
I'm a homo!!! You can call me if you want!
#64 Anonymous 05/11/11 @ 07:08:58pm Comment
Not all men are animals, I'm not. I'm not gay, and I'd love to just hold around the love of my life... I don't need sex that often... a few times a week is what i'd want, but I wouldn't need it... wouldn't need sex each week at all... I just want a girl to hold around, and to love...
#65 Anonymous 05/14/11 @ 10:34:08am Comment
What straight guy wants to cuddle a girl but not have sex with her? He wouln't want to cuddle her in the first place unless he was attracted to her, ya see my point? You don't usually get one without the other. Go get a hug from your daddy or something. Grown men don't cuddle and want nothing more...duh.
#66 Anonymous 07/01/11 @ 01:56:49pm Comment
My fiance is that way actually.
I tend to be the one wanting sexytimes after cuddling actually. Had to stop doing that though, because he really likes cuddling for the sake of closeness and cuddling... and was getting sad when I would "ruin" it by feeling him up.
I tend to be the one wanting sexytimes after cuddling actually. Had to stop doing that though, because he really likes cuddling for the sake of closeness and cuddling... and was getting sad when I would "ruin" it by feeling him up.
#67 Anonymous 08/08/11 @ 07:37:25pm Comment
I want to snuggle up to but I'd fall asleep, is that OK?
#68 Anonymous 12/06/11 @ 09:02:41am Comment
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