Just Vent | Just Venting

Guys are wired differently. Love is sex. Ya just have ta know how to play them and they'll love you forever, even though it just seems like sex to you. Wild sex is a healthy relationship.

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I do say I would have to disagree. This doesn't always have to do with "how a guy's mind works..." The first impression a guy gets about a girl is based on the outside before they even get to know what's on the inside.

So how do you dress when you go out with your friends with potential to meet guys? How much gaping cleavage is there? How tight are your pants? The self-image that you might be portraying on te outside may contradict what's actually on the inside.

If a guy looks at you and the first thing he thinks is "Daaaaammmn that girl can't WAIT to get Plum Plopped" then that's what you're going to get. And those are the esiest ones to get because, yes, most guys, not all, have a dirt bag mentality. But be patient. they are out there, and they're dying to find someone like you.

So wait for a guy to laugh with you without having to look at you. If he's laughing with you and is facing you all the time, he's just waiting for you to throw your head forward laughing so he can check out your centerfold, cleavage, etc.

Hope tis helps a little.

Thanks,

- PCFG (Providing Confidence For Generations)

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I wonder if being up front about it would help?

Lay out the law before the snuggling even begins. If he's a dickhead and all he wants to do is tweet your tart, then when you tell him: "This is cuddling time only, don't pull any stupid sexual shit cuz that's not what I'm looking for" he'll only do one thing or the other. Agree with you, or get upset about it and most likely leave.

Might be an easier way to weed them out before being dissappointed once again.

Just an idea to try... no guarantees or anything.

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Stay with any of them long enough & they'll quit that shit. Then you'll wonder what the hell you did to make them so distant.

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It's not rare at all. You just can't find them because they're not the guys that come on to you, buy you drinks and end up dating you within days of meeting you. They're the guys that become your friends, listen to you and talk. It takes a lot more effort to get a guy like that and without realizing it you probably have a couple that you count as friends. There's probably even one or two that would want to date you but you never show interest and instead they watch, aggravated by your choice in shallow guys. These are the loyal, loving guys that take more than a wink and giggle to catch. This coming from one of them.

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Put out, he'll fall asleep, you can snuggle and watch your damn movie... When he wakes, feed him!
Now you've made a male friend... Easy!

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Why does a female have to snuggle with another female? What if girls don't enjoy the company of bitchy girls? And why does it seem that girls have to "put out" and then feed men? This isn't the 1920's, feed yourself and watch porn. Try and be considerate for once. You're all giving men a horrible name, selfish pigs.

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Because they are men and they think differently. The sooner you realize that the better. No right - no wrong - it just is. Can't always be about him - can't always be about you. You both have to care about making each other happy. So, to answer your question, you will be irritated for a long time if you want them to change. And I don't think that they mean to irritate , they just don't have the same emotions and needs that you have. The best you can do is to try to explain how you feel. Hopefully, he'll snuggle because that's what will make you happy. And sometimes you'll have to - you know - to make him happy, too.

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Find a gay male friend. That is only way this will work.

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find a guy with a baby penis.

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go to a catholic schoool

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Probably has to do with your choice in men. If you prescribe to a 'type', you have no reason to complain about all the guys you date being x or not being y.

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