Posted by: Anonymous on 03/03/10 @ 03:07:18pm
I have been so patient with you, yet you still act like I'm not good enough. I come up and see you, I make an effort and cook for you, but just because I can't understand that you are still grieving for your dad, although I tell you I am here, you make me feel like that's not good enough either. Well i am me, and if you don't like it you have lost the only person who tried to understand, care and love you. You told me no one else has ever gotten so close as i have. So here from here?? I am torn. because you are destroying me.
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Give him some space.
Explain why if you need to. Whether or not he knows it, he heeds time by himself to come to peace with his feelings and get his head around what has happened. Your presence will likely only give him a target to lash out at, for any little thing. He can't appreciate your presence and feelings when he is, for understable reasons, currently wrapped up entirely in his own. People handle loss differently. You can be there for him without being together constantly during this period. Some thoughts.
Explain why if you need to. Whether or not he knows it, he heeds time by himself to come to peace with his feelings and get his head around what has happened. Your presence will likely only give him a target to lash out at, for any little thing. He can't appreciate your presence and feelings when he is, for understable reasons, currently wrapped up entirely in his own. People handle loss differently. You can be there for him without being together constantly during this period. Some thoughts.
#1 Anonymous 03/04/10 @ 09:37:34am Comment
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