Posted by: Anonymous on 07/28/10 @ 09:50:25pm
DUDE. I said I wanted to be friends when we broke up. That doesn't mean I want to be the friend you drone on and on to about your new skank you met TWO DAYS AGO, that you "can see yourself being with."! When are you gunna realize it hurts me to hear how happy you are, because I'm still not over you....
Category: Love
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Who dumped who?
#1 Anonymous 07/29/10 @ 12:32:01am Comment
He broke up with me. And said I still want to be friends if you want to, and I did.
I've been in your situation. Keep your interactions with him to a minimum. He is being hurtful on purpose and no one needs someone like that in their life. Whatever you do, don't get back together with him. He is showing his true colors right now and they don't change.
#3 Anonymous 07/29/10 @ 01:21:38am Advice
Thank you so much for your advice. It's really appreciated. I'll have to keep that in mind next time I see him. Which is inevitable. /:
#4 Anonymous 07/29/10 @ 02:35:47am Comment
Ooh boy, makes you want to take back your "We can still be friends..." line huh? Dust yourself up doormat and Muttr to him live...
#5 Anonymous 07/29/10 @ 05:31:09pm Comment
There are two reasons (that I have noticed) for anyone to say that "lets just be friends!" line to someone they are breaking up with: 1) He/She doesn't want to feel like a bad guy. If you make someone believe it was a mutual break-up, it makes you feel better about yourself. 2) He/She wants an easy lay when he/she wants it. It is always easy to go back and have sex with an ex if you left each other on decent terms.
I know you want to be friends with him right now, but just know, his intentions are probably not good ones. You can be strong, sweetie. You will find someone better that won't flaunt his latest escapades to you just to make you jealous. And you have to know that that is what he is doing: trying to make you jealous. You don't have to acknowledge such a blatant slap in your face. Feel flattered, and move on. You will find a person, one day, that actually deserves to be with you.
I know you want to be friends with him right now, but just know, his intentions are probably not good ones. You can be strong, sweetie. You will find someone better that won't flaunt his latest escapades to you just to make you jealous. And you have to know that that is what he is doing: trying to make you jealous. You don't have to acknowledge such a blatant slap in your face. Feel flattered, and move on. You will find a person, one day, that actually deserves to be with you.
#6 Anonymous 07/29/10 @ 06:08:01pm Advice
Thank you. (:
Lately I've been trying to put space between us and not try so hard to be his friend. Its been about three days since I talked to him. Doesn't seem like long, but I feel that this is a big step for me. I feel like I'm finally on my way to being done with his crap. And its liberating.
Lately I've been trying to put space between us and not try so hard to be his friend. Its been about three days since I talked to him. Doesn't seem like long, but I feel that this is a big step for me. I feel like I'm finally on my way to being done with his crap. And its liberating.
#7 Anonymous 07/29/10 @ 11:39:37pm Comment
Good for you! 3 days is a great start :)
#8 Anonymous 07/30/10 @ 12:41:30am Comment
I'm hoping I can keep it up. I almost caved today! :o
But then I thought about how much better it feels when I'm not thinking about him, or involving him in my life, and it helped. :D
But then I thought about how much better it feels when I'm not thinking about him, or involving him in my life, and it helped. :D
#9 Anonymous 07/30/10 @ 02:31:20am Comment
It really sounds like you will be okay! You're already noticing how much better things can be when you live your own life, and focus on keeping yourself HAPPY! I think that is great, and I wish you all the best!
#10 Anonymous 07/30/10 @ 02:19:41pm Comment
Well, I slipped today.
My phone butt dialed him, and I noticed it, and I talked to him for a little while, but I had to go, and he said, "text me, bye." And so I did.... //:
It was a mistakee.
My phone butt dialed him, and I noticed it, and I talked to him for a little while, but I had to go, and he said, "text me, bye." And so I did.... //:
It was a mistakee.
#11 Anonymous 07/30/10 @ 10:47:29pm Comment
Muttr's like this is why I created Muttr in the first place! Thank you guys for giving your advice to a random stranger :D
And to the poster: You should probably let him know that you don't want to hear about those things, either that or eventually you will go crazy inside from holding back! Also, you're human, we make mistakes, just make sure ya learn from them from time to time ;)
And to the poster: You should probably let him know that you don't want to hear about those things, either that or eventually you will go crazy inside from holding back! Also, you're human, we make mistakes, just make sure ya learn from them from time to time ;)
#12 n4te02 07/31/10 @ 12:00:52am Advice
To the creator: Thank you for your advice, and for creating this site! I visit everyday, and I love seeing when I get new advice and I love being able to give others advice! I appreciate all the advice from others, and I love this site!
#13 Anonymous 07/31/10 @ 03:23:38am Comment
Sooo true #6 !
#14 Anonymous 02/20/11 @ 10:24:46pm Comment
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