i feel like a whore and i'm ashamed of myself. i'm a virgin, i went to his house to talk eventually he had me straddled over his lap we were making out (lip-sucking/biting tongue involved) eventually he got on top of me was feeling under my shirt, tugging at my jeans, tryna unhook my bra, i let him suck on my boobs bite my nipples :( i ended up having to leave cause my mom was on her way home. he's not my bf and probably doesn't plan on it i never did anything like that before and i feel terrible : (
Wow, isn't it sad that if you go over to someone's house it's only really to have sex? Otherwise it's the phone or online? It's kinda disappointing that you can never just hangout with a friend of the opposite sex
I did something like that once. The guy told every human being in the world and ruined my reputation. Everyone called me a slut and a hoe and other things like that so I ended up having to move. I learned my lesson though. But did you?
how did i get so many comments from so many judgemental buttholes...i jus wanted to get that off of my chest...im not usually like that, it jus happened...sooo most of you can go screw yourselves for all i care
I really dont think that she went over there expecting anything to happen. That is not fair to assume about her. I dont think you have anything about to feel about. Your young and your still learning and making mistakes. Just fyi it really is better to get to know someone before doing any making out so just be more guarded about that stuff.
#48 Are you the same person who has been criticizing this poor misunderstood girl? Do you know that you are expected to treat others the way you'd like to be treated? It is possible that you have self esteem issues but continuously bullying another person is wrong beyond all reason. I'm sure you're not perfect at all.
I hardly believe anybody here would have actually said these things to the woman who post this up if she was standing right in front of them. Society? Over the internet? Majority of people shouldn't be considered part of society you idiot, especially those who don't have a life. Hence all these rude comments.
Is that not what society is? A democracy? The majority? I believe you would not have called her any of these names in person; the anonymous option of this website allows you to show your true colors without revealing your identity.
There are so many stds and single moms out there because people are not using protection or birth control, not because people are having sex. Sex itself is not the problem. Lack of understanding and responsibility are the problem. Sex has been around since the beginning of time and stds have not. Also this girl did not have sex with anyone. She Made Out with him which does not mean she had intercourse with him. Please get that straight in the next comments.
I don't get why go over there though. We all know how society is now and majority of guys just want sex. You came real close to somethin else not happening. Jus sounds like you didn't think the situation through tho. Not trynna bite at you or anything but think a little more before you decide to do somethin.
wow, all ofyou who are calling her a whore, have you never made a mistake? Do you want to be continually labeled for one error of judgement? Or would you rather people forgive you and move on. What you did was wrong, obviously you feel you went farther than you should have with this young man. Now you know not to put yourself into a situation like that again. People make mistakes, but the mistake isn't what makes the person. Learn from your mistakes, don't dwell on the things you can't change. An intense make-out session doesn't make you a whore but you are going to have to forgive yourself to move forward. But please don't let all of these bullying remarks affect the way you feel about yourself.
We're human, and things like this happen. Easy to get swept up in the moment, especially if you're attracted to someone. If you're still young, a teenager, you should be more careful not to give up too much to anyone too soon, but love and sex are fluid - they mean different things to different people. You decide what's right or shameful to you. But even if you felt you made a mistake, that doesn't make you a terrible person. We often want to be close with people we like.
We all make mistakes. *hug* If you're worried or have doubts, just try not to be in that situation, alone with a guy, especially at his house, again until you'd be sure about anything. Don't ever be afraid to say no to a guy, even if you like him. Anything you do intimately needs to be under your control.
You are not a whore. People just like to hate for fun. You let your feelings take over. We are all guilty of it. Just some of us have morals and feel like crap later. Keep your head up gorgeous! You are not a whore.
You're not a whore. People aren't properly reading it and just are ASSuming things. I've had a boyfriend be controlling and abusive and molested me. Never had intercourse with him. It would have been rape. But I was scared. I tried to fight things and it made things worse. Broke up with him over the phone - he later went to jail for sexual assault on a 12 year old ... when he was 20 (about 5-6 years after "dating" him). These types of people are very good at getting through with their bad wants.
There is no training on what to do when these types of things happen. There's nothing saying how to react - but because of how our bodies are created you naturally tried to go along - knowing this was properly right but not knowing how to properly stop. This is a nice sign of affection I get from my husband... and even at times I get nervous for no reason. I still don't know what to do about that for myself.
You were fine for hanging out with a boy of the opposite sex. Play it out learning the word "No". And using pressure with your tone and your body language. Your eyes. Yours hands. Your everything. Don't fret. You will learn how to be in control when boys don't know how to. <3
Seriously Sweetie? Safely experimenting and going to 2nd base does not make you a whore, or anything close to that.
You are a bright woman who shouldn't listen to immature little assholes who don't know their dick from a stick or a vagina from a hole in the ground.
Sexuality takes a while to grow comfortable with, and unless you are married or engaged, you always have your freedom. Labels are made for cans of tuna, not people - so stop judging yourself and embrace a future of sexual confidence and maturity.
damn to me that sounds hot
just remember if u ever want to have sex make sure its safe sex
i think your mom would get over the fact u had safe sex then telling her you got knocked up by some random guy
There's nothing wrong with sex. Have it, if you like. Don't have it, if you don't. "Whore" is a bulls*** concept made up by bitter people who want to feel like they're better than people who get more attention from the opposite sex. Don't let other people's labels define you. If you like having sex, don't give a s*** about what other people think. If you don't, don't do it. Just don't do that all-too-common thing of bullshitting yourself by doing one thing and saying another - having lots of sex, but then saying "Oh but I didn't mean to! It doesn't count!".
Okay straight up she did not have sex so stop with the sex thing she specifically said she is still a virgin so there she is not a whore and btw if she was a whore she would charge so this would make her a slut but she not even that because she still a god damn virgin!!! She made a mistake and just wanted to tell someone but didn't want to be judged and all you low life sit here and judge a girl you don't even know!! I would love to know how you no so much about a person when you don't even know there name! I mean get a life
i'm so sick of rapey dudes who keep pushing when it's obvious the girl is not ready. it's not your fault that he took more than you wanted to give.... but please do not hang out with guys alone anymore until you are absolutely certain they will treat you with respect. making out should be fun, not something you feel "slutty" about. he did it wrong. very very wrong. stay away from jerks like that. hint: 98% are jerks.
Hey, don't worry about it! It's not the end of the world. I'm sorry you felt so horrible afterwards though. I disagree that every guy you are intimate with has to be your boyfriend. But try to respect yourself and always be safe! You're not a whore- ignore the judgmental comments.