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s*** happens. You didn't give away your cherry. That's all that matters.

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Lol!! I dont know how many girls I know say "Im ashamed" or "im never doing it again" , and within a month are already opening their legs :)

You don't need to put on muttr "I feel terrible" , you need to not bulls*** yourself and if you REALLY don't want to have sex, then don't be going to guys house to make out.

otherwise you are just lying to yourself.

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person #2 CLEARLY didn't read the post. i definitely said i went there to talk -___- he pulled me over to him n things went on from there. i didn't expect any of that to happen, ass****.

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Why not talk over the phone, or in a public place?

why did it had to be a private meeting in his house?


HAHAHAAHAH!!!


Bs'er

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ummm do you not ever go to a guy's house just to chill?? you sound like a dumbass right now -__- people don't always just talk on the phone, stupid.

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sure keep "chillin'" , specially with the same guy.


good luck with that.

I really don't care, l8tr's

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hasta luego perra

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Wow, isn't it sad that if you go over to someone's house it's only really to have sex? Otherwise it's the phone or online? It's kinda disappointing that you can never just hangout with a friend of the opposite sex

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It is sad, is human nature to be tempted.

You can have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, just don't be stupid and set yourself up for failure and ruining a good relationship by doing your private meetings.

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OMG that's the most terriblistic things i have herd in the enitirety of my life. UCKIN ELL MATE WOT WER U THINKIN WOMAN?

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#10's sarcasm -___-

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you are a WHORE

case closed.

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really? was #12 being serious? cause that's mean :(

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wow.....you let him suck..on ur boobs?...that's kinda ho-ish..

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i just realized that refreshing the page re-posts the comment...more than once..

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but seriously, he's not ur boyfreind and u still let him do that stuff to you? i agree with #2 and #12

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but seriously, he's not ur boyfreind and u still let him do that stuff to you? i agree with #2 and #12

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I did something like that once. The guy told every human being in the world and ruined my reputation. Everyone called me a slut and a hoe and other things like that so I ended up having to move. I learned my lesson though. But did you?

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#12 f***. you.

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There's girls out there f***ing everybody and sucking dick. You made out wit the guy and let him suck your t***. It's not that serious.

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some people are so mean. why not just let the person vent and move on.

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She can vent, but who are we trying to fool here?

we know she is just doing this to make herself feel better, but will end up going for it again and again.

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#25 is being way too judgemental. How do you know she'll do this again? People make mistakes, right? *Forgive and Forget* *Peace Love and Happiness*

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These comments are terrible!!

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how did i get so many comments from so many judgemental buttholes...i jus wanted to get that off of my chest...im not usually like that, it jus happened...sooo most of you can go screw yourselves for all i care

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If you'd come to my house I'd f*** you good and long ;) my cock is big so you'd be pleased ;)

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''peace, love, and happiness'' ? your f***cing kidding right. no one is that lame.

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I really dont think that she went over there expecting anything to happen. That is not fair to assume about her. I dont think you have anything about to feel about. Your young and your still learning and making mistakes. Just fyi it really is better to get to know someone before doing any making out so just be more guarded about that stuff.

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''peace, love, and happiness'' ? your f***cing kidding right. no one is that lame.

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Yea i agree with #27 terrible comments. How old were those, calling her a whore when you lost your v card? Just curious.

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#27 #31 #33 thank you

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#29 is f***cin creepy!!

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Lol , she feels like a whore, acts like a whore ...


mmmmm...

ting ting ting ....

she is a whore!

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to all of you: i did one. thing. that does not make me a whore.

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why did my comment #37 post after #12 n not #36?...

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these comments are outta of order!!

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that's weird....

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ahhh man! what the heck!

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you did one thing, that one thing was whorish and the question is.... will you do it again? .... of course.

then...

why are you ashamed?

be a proud whore!!

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think wat you want. i recognize and have learned from my mistake. you clearly don't have anything better to do than to judge people you don't know.

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Hey u enjoyed it f*** it it does not make you a whore if it appens again just make sure u let them know how far u want it to go don't give up the p**** continue to be a dick tease

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umm............

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#29 .....eww....perv.

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It's a shame that people can never just say what they need to say and be left alone. Society has become so rude and selfish that it's disappointing.

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Society would have nothing to say if she would just keep her clothes on and maybe go do something useful with her life, that's why she feels that way she know what she did is wrong, but who cares!

What are we supposed to say? .. mmm .. O yea!! that was a great accomplishment!!! I'm sure your family would be proud!!! This will take you far in life!!

Pleeeeaaaaseeeee........... Dont act like a victim here.

that is why there are so many std's and single moms out there.

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#48 Are you the same person who has been criticizing this poor misunderstood girl? Do you know that you are expected to treat others the way you'd like to be treated? It is possible that you have self esteem issues but continuously bullying another person is wrong beyond all reason. I'm sure you're not perfect at all.

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I hardly believe anybody here would have actually said these things to the woman who post this up if she was standing right in front of them. Society? Over the internet? Majority of people shouldn't be considered part of society you idiot, especially those who don't have a life. Hence all these rude comments.

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Is that not what society is? A democracy? The majority? I believe you would not have called her any of these names in person; the anonymous option of this website allows you to show your true colors without revealing your identity.

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There are so many stds and single moms out there because people are not using protection or birth control, not because people are having sex. Sex itself is not the problem. Lack of understanding and responsibility are the problem. Sex has been around since the beginning of time and stds have not. Also this girl did not have sex with anyone. She Made Out with him which does not mean she had intercourse with him. Please get that straight in the next comments.

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THANK YOU!!! :D

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I don't get why go over there though. We all know how society is now and majority of guys just want sex. You came real close to somethin else not happening. Jus sounds like you didn't think the situation through tho. Not trynna bite at you or anything but think a little more before you decide to do somethin.

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#54 really knows what she's saying. It's pretty obvious that guys these days only want to f***. You shouldn't have agreed to go in the first place.

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Why...nvm.

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My rather distorted but still, educated thought, on your situation is that you are a c*** !! A BIG one too !!

You KNEW what you were doing and had complete lack of control, you SHOULD be ashamed because you ARE a whore!!

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My rather distorted but still, educated thought, on your situation is that you are a c*** !! A BIG one too !!

You KNEW what you were doing and had complete lack of control, you SHOULD be ashamed because you ARE a whore!!

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wow, all ofyou who are calling her a whore, have you never made a mistake? Do you want to be continually labeled for one error of judgement? Or would you rather people forgive you and move on. What you did was wrong, obviously you feel you went farther than you should have with this young man. Now you know not to put yourself into a situation like that again. People make mistakes, but the mistake isn't what makes the person. Learn from your mistakes, don't dwell on the things you can't change. An intense make-out session doesn't make you a whore but you are going to have to forgive yourself to move forward. But please don't let all of these bullying remarks affect the way you feel about yourself.

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Nice.

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um.....wow. Well thank you #59 cause this crap waz getting to me and then i read your comment :)

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you're welcome :) Hope you're doing better now!

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We're human, and things like this happen. Easy to get swept up in the moment, especially if you're attracted to someone. If you're still young, a teenager, you should be more careful not to give up too much to anyone too soon, but love and sex are fluid - they mean different things to different people. You decide what's right or shameful to you. But even if you felt you made a mistake, that doesn't make you a terrible person. We often want to be close with people we like.

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We all make mistakes. *hug* If you're worried or have doubts, just try not to be in that situation, alone with a guy, especially at his house, again until you'd be sure about anything. Don't ever be afraid to say no to a guy, even if you like him. Anything you do intimately needs to be under your control.

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You are not a whore. People just like to hate for fun. You let your feelings take over. We are all guilty of it. Just some of us have morals and feel like crap later. Keep your head up gorgeous! You are not a whore.

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You're not a whore. People aren't properly reading it and just are ASSuming things. I've had a boyfriend be controlling and abusive and molested me. Never had intercourse with him. It would have been rape. But I was scared. I tried to fight things and it made things worse. Broke up with him over the phone - he later went to jail for sexual assault on a 12 year old ... when he was 20 (about 5-6 years after "dating" him). These types of people are very good at getting through with their bad wants.
There is no training on what to do when these types of things happen. There's nothing saying how to react - but because of how our bodies are created you naturally tried to go along - knowing this was properly right but not knowing how to properly stop. This is a nice sign of affection I get from my husband... and even at times I get nervous for no reason. I still don't know what to do about that for myself.
You were fine for hanging out with a boy of the opposite sex. Play it out learning the word "No". And using pressure with your tone and your body language. Your eyes. Yours hands. Your everything. Don't fret. You will learn how to be in control when boys don't know how to. <3

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i'd f*** you

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Seriously Sweetie? Safely experimenting and going to 2nd base does not make you a whore, or anything close to that.

You are a bright woman who shouldn't listen to immature little assholes who don't know their dick from a stick or a vagina from a hole in the ground.

Sexuality takes a while to grow comfortable with, and unless you are married or engaged, you always have your freedom. Labels are made for cans of tuna, not people - so stop judging yourself and embrace a future of sexual confidence and maturity.

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You are just young and experimenting. Protect your heart, because those scars stay with you forever. Make the person you are sharing yourself with, earns it.

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damn to me that sounds hot
just remember if u ever want to have sex make sure its safe sex
i think your mom would get over the fact u had safe sex then telling her you got knocked up by some random guy

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There's nothing wrong with sex. Have it, if you like. Don't have it, if you don't. "Whore" is a bulls*** concept made up by bitter people who want to feel like they're better than people who get more attention from the opposite sex. Don't let other people's labels define you. If you like having sex, don't give a s*** about what other people think. If you don't, don't do it. Just don't do that all-too-common thing of bullshitting yourself by doing one thing and saying another - having lots of sex, but then saying "Oh but I didn't mean to! It doesn't count!".

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Okay straight up she did not have sex so stop with the sex thing she specifically said she is still a virgin so there she is not a whore and btw if she was a whore she would charge so this would make her a slut but she not even that because she still a god damn virgin!!! She made a mistake and just wanted to tell someone but didn't want to be judged and all you low life sit here and judge a girl you don't even know!! I would love to know how you no so much about a person when you don't even know there name! I mean get a life

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I know girls whose done worse things than you and claim to be innocent. Though its good to sometimes experiment but if I were you, I'd do it with a guy that I can trust or my boyfriend.

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don't you dare be ashamed. you live in a world that treats females like objects and always blames the victim.

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i'm so sick of rapey dudes who keep pushing when it's obvious the girl is not ready. it's not your fault that he took more than you wanted to give.... but please do not hang out with guys alone anymore until you are absolutely certain they will treat you with respect. making out should be fun, not something you feel "slutty" about. he did it wrong. very very wrong. stay away from jerks like that. hint: 98% are jerks.

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well at least you got the pleasure. lol! f*** him and keep it trucking girl. find someone thatll give you head. thats better

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Hey, don't worry about it! It's not the end of the world. I'm sorry you felt so horrible afterwards though. I disagree that every guy you are intimate with has to be your boyfriend. But try to respect yourself and always be safe! You're not a whore- ignore the judgmental comments.

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