right so it turns out my ex did something indecently gross 4 years ago, one of my current boy toys told me about it last night when he realised I used to date him, when I left his he was fine at least thats what I thought but now he's deleted me on facebook- really dont understand how him being an idiot, means I get pushed out of your life, jesus you snort cocaine and get pissed as part of a quiet weekend, really your not perfect, what he did was sick, but I haven't done anything, fed up of being used and dropped.
Sorry if it didn't make any sense, basically it's just messed up in reality so it's hard to explain and yup I know I'm an idiot, probably serves me right, but still need somewhere to vent (incoherently)
I don't really know what is going on with all of the "idiots" on this. I don't think the OP did anything wrong. My ex has done some gross things, but they have nothing to do with me. But whatever, f*** that guy...he was just a boy toy anyway. Good riddance if he's going to be immature about your past and HIS present. Cocaine and alcohol on a quiet night? Gross, bye bye.