Posted by: Anonymous  on 01/04/10 @ 08:42:51pm

Have you ever felt abandoned? Like noone ccares?You ask for help but noone listens? Well thats how i feel. My mom only pays attention to my feelings...ummmmm....accually she doesnt. i mean sure she pays attention to ME but not what i am feeling. like today i was having a bunch of really random mood swings all the same time and this is after my u know what so it could not have been that but it scared me so i asked my mom to help me i dont kow whats wrong with me and she just walked past me and said "sorry." I mean she wasnt even listening. No she walked over to my little sister instead. I mean love my little sister alot but sometimes i remeber when i was the only child, me and my mom had a great relationship. She was nice, fun, sweet, caring, the life of the party! :) But after my little sister was born my mom started to not pay any attention and also started to do other things that i dont like. And NO she doest beat me. Just saying. i mean she is a good mom but sometimes i wonder where she went u know? Where was my old mom?

Category: Health     3 Responses
From a mom's perspective, sometimes we are so preoccupied and, sadly, don't really hear you. Try to sit her down and just ask her to listen - not solve, just really listen. Ask her to time listen for 2 minutes and then ask her to tell you what she heard. When you say, "That's exactly what I mean", then you'll know she understands ho you feel. I'm sure she loves you and doesn't realize that you are hurt by all of this. Understanding will lead the way. Good luck to you.
#1    Anonymous     01/06/10 @ 11:28:17am    Advice
I agree. This sounds like a problem of communication, potentially, from both sides. (That's not to mean that anyone is to blame.) You should sit down to talk to her to clearly communicate your problems but also get across that the message she is communicating to you, whether she knows it or not, is that she doesn't care about your problems. I'm sure she does and just doesn't know you're feeling ignored.
#2    Anonymous     01/07/10 @ 03:22:49pm    Advice
hahaha your moms so funny
#3    Anonymous     01/09/10 @ 07:29:50pm    Comment

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