Posted by: Anonymous  on 12/13/09 @ 04:23:02pm

When you find out that one of your best friends is a hypocrite and complains about something you do when she does the exact same thing not long after, what do you do? I'm wondering how much longer I can go before I blow*** up in her face...

Category: Friends     6 Responses
If its such a big deal to you, call her out. If its not really a big deal, let it go
#1    Anonymous     12/13/09 @ 09:25:45pm    Advice
soo many people are hypocrites... it's hard to really "hate" someone for it. Depending on what it is, maybe just confront them as a "friend" and be nice about, don't go knocking their teeth out, lol.
#4    Anonymous     12/13/09 @ 11:11:40pm    Advice
Best friends don't let each other act like that. If you're worried about losing her as a friend because you feel you need to criticize how she acts, then she's not really a great best friend to have. You need to find a new best friend.

Best friends take the advice of each other. Sounds to me like this is a one-sided friendship. Do you feel sometimes that you value the friendship more than she might?

If so, don't waste your time or put too much into it because it's probably not something you want to do for the rest of your life.

I call my best friend and idiot all the time for doing stupid stuff... I tell him how it is AS SOON as something happens! Why? Because if I let it go for too long and it builds up, then I would never want to hit him with it all at once, and I'd just let everything go and thus not feel the same connection anymore.

Gotta have connections... gotta believe in your relationship. If you don't, there's no point to having it.
#5    PCFixerGuy     12/14/09 @ 09:03:05am    Advice

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