Every time I try to go out with my friends, especially the female ones, my girlfriend flips a s***! Or she'll be really encouraging, and then freak out at me when I get home. And then she never wants to talk about it when I bring it up. It's really starting to drive me nuts. I need some serious advice. What do I do?????
Bottom line, tell her that it really bothers you. No matter how much you love her, if she has trust issues, she doesnt love you. Jealousy and mistrust that isnt warranted wont lead you and her anywhere good. Neither will not being able to communicate with eachother why certain things bother you.
Why don't you let her come with you every once in a while so she can see there is nothing to worry about? Trust issues can be bad but it doesn't mean she doesn't love you, that's bullshit. It may be that she trusts you but doesn't trust your female friends, or that she's just insecure in general.
But she does need to talk to you about it. Push the issue. If she gets mad then there's going to be a problem...And let her know.
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