Posted by: Sydian on 07/25/10 @ 03:57:09pm
I'm so terribly tired of you condemning or pitying me because I got married and had a baby by 21. I love my life, my son, and my husband. So unless you can stop being a b**** and start being happy for me, I'm going to quit being so nice and remind you why everyone thought I was a b**** in high school.
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I just hope you have other goals in life other than being the perfect wife and mother. It's 2010. :)
#1 Anonymous 07/25/10 @ 10:42:36pm Comment
It doesn't matter what year it is, if this is what I want for my life and I'm happy with it, who has the right to condemn me? My husband fully supports whatever I decide to do. If I want to work, I will. If I would rather stay home, raising my child and never missing a moment, and taking care of my husband, I will. All that I ask from those who have know me for a good long time, is to respect the fact that I'm happy and my life has gone according to my dreams. I don't deserve to be treated like shit over this, especially from someone who claims to be a friend.
I'm not saying your friend is right in judging you the way she (I'm assuming your friend is female) does, but she has a right to her opinion as much as you do. You can't force or expect a person to be happy for you, I've seen what that does to friendships. All you can do is reasonably talk to your friend about this if you still want her in your life...the outcome of that conversation should be the grounds of your decision to be nice or not.
#3 Anonymous 07/26/10 @ 12:41:46am Comment
Who are you trying to convince that you are happy? Your friend, or yourself? If your life is going according to your dreams, why does it matter what anyone else thinks? If you don't want your friends to talk to you like that, you should probably have a conversation with them instead of posting a muttr about it. Just like what #3 said, everyone has a right to an opinion, and if you don't like it, then you should probably think about why.
#4 Anonymous 07/26/10 @ 03:30:51pm Advice
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