Posted by: Anonymous  on 03/17/10 @ 06:15:51pm

ok i need ADVICE! my friend told me today that her dad hits her and shoves her into things and i really need to know the right thing to do. only me and 3 other of her friends know. oh and her mom, who just stands by and laughs. what should i do?

Category: Family     5 Responses
Talk to her a little more about it, maybe try and see if she will bring it up to someone that can actually do something about herself.

That is always a shitty situation and people (especially the mother, wtf??) shouldn't just stand by and let it happen.
#1    Anonymous     03/17/10 @ 10:17:20pm    Advice
Well there really isn't anything you can do but try and convince her to go to the police or a councilor at school. If she refuses to do it, there's nothing much left to do but watch and hope she comes to her senses, we all want the best for our friends, but they have to want it too.
#2    Anonymous     03/18/10 @ 12:25:06am    Advice
Question: what sort of things does he shove her into?? If it's only soft bushes and the occasional marble column, then no harm, no foul, AMIRITE???
#3    Anonymous     03/18/10 @ 10:32:17am    Comment
You need to make sure she understand this is not good. If she doesn't you may need to get other people involved. If you do this, you have to know she may be mad at you. But if the situation is serious, she will come to appreciate your courage to worry about her wellbeing.
#4    Anonymous     03/18/10 @ 12:30:59pm    Comment
Child protective services
#5    Anonymous     04/15/10 @ 04:13:39am    Advice

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