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Dont stress too much on this. You can find several other links out there for using Drupal. I'd post some links in here if I could, but all I can say is don't give up. Nothing worth doing is easy. You dont need to be a super research guru.
What I usually do when I'm trying to figure something out in my field:
Lurk forums - might take awhile to find a good one, and sometimes you'll think you've got a good board but it tapers out after a few threads. Dont give up hope, keep searching and lurking. Give about 45 min per board. You'll eventually find some threads that lead to other boards or other resources.
PDF versions of a book - While I'm not explicitly advocating ripping off publishers, it's not exactly difficult to find the .pdf version of a tech book. (If only they had that option when I was in college...)
Read, read, read... and then read some more. Sometimes this shit isnt easy. But more often than not I've found losing myself in research, figuring something out on my own, and applying it; It's one of the most rewarding feelings you can really get.
Good luck.
#1 TheTech 04/06/12 @ 03:48:56am Advice
It's so unbelievably good that you feel that way about him, OP. Of course it's always good to cling the good memories and it's clear that you can do that.
It's always hard to let go. Don't let anyone else tell you when to do that, though. It takes a lot of time and it's up to you when you feel ready to "move on" or feel better. You don't owe anyone anything. Just focus on yourself and your feelings.
Best of luck. :) <3
#1 Anonymous 04/05/12 @ 09:43:22pm Advice
Hey, if he didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't. :) Don't worry about him finding other girls attractive because when it comes down to it, he's in LOVE with you. Love means so much more than lust. He's not going to find someone to fall in love with that easily when he's dating you. :)
My advice would to be honest with him. Let him know that you feel less attractive to him. Of course, you have to take into account that you *might* be making him feel the same way. If you're feeling insecure then you might be subconsciously projecting your feelings onto him. Maybe he feels insecure about the relationship simply because you do.
Take time to compliment him, let him know how you feel and please try to feel better about yourself. I don't know about you, but when I *try* to feel sexy (the right make-up, lingerie, clothes, mood, what I say, etc) then I feel better about myself. You have to remember that confidence is an amazingly sexy quality. Feeling good about yourself will do wonders. Of course, if he's not complimenting you anymore so that you no longer feel sexy, you need to say something.
Above all, be honest and learn to love yourself. Don't let jealousy or self-esteem issues hold you back. If your boyfriend reverting to complimenting your frequently doesn't change how you feel, you might want to invest some time in self-esteem boosters. The sooner you relax into yourself and the relationship, the better you'll feel. :)
Also, it could be that you've somewhat forced your boyfriend into "admitting" that he checks out other girls. I mean, how long have you been pestering him to say that he does? You did say "finally" which means he might not actually do this but you have pushed the idea into his head subconsciously.
#2 Anonymous 04/05/12 @ 09:29:26pm Advice
Sounds like a tough situation. Best thing you can do is basically erase the person you're talking about from your life and stick to your guns about it. If he/she tries to stick around, kick them in the ass and straight out the door.
You dont need that headache anymore.
#2 Anonymous 03/30/12 @ 06:18:19am Advice
You don't exactly have to pray or anything. I know where you're coming from with all this. Working in the hospital I get scenarios like this a lot. Keeping someone in mind or hoping for the best is honestly just as good as praying. A simple good luck could have sufficed in place of it. Just come up with your own method for them. It can be tough to come up with your own way, but i'll be rooting for you to do what you can. Good luck.
#1 Kusanagi53 03/26/12 @ 08:32:49pm Advice
follow your feelings time to move on or it will be FWB on his end .....
#1 glassman 03/22/12 @ 05:24:39pm Advice
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